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VIRGO

There are many planetary factors that determine how two people will interact in a relationship. Here you can discover how some of the main issues and drives of Virgo will blend (or not!) with the other sun signs. So, my friend, check out how well you “mate” with the signs below.

  • You and an Aries Zodiac Sign
    This combination can present a real challenge.  It could feel more like a parent-child relationship at times, with Aries rebelling at your criticism, while your feelings are hurt by Aries’ tactlessness.   Each of you will have to go more than halfway to meet the other’s needs.

  • You and a Taurus Zodiac Sign
    This earthy combination provides a perfect working and emotional partnership.  Very considerate and supportive of each other, you both operate from a practical and logical viewpoint.  You’re on the same page, both physically and mentally.

  • You and a Gemini Zodiac Sign
    Both of you have lively minds, animated by ideas, and could enjoy endless discussions and debates.  Being able to communicate your feelings can lead to a lasting relationship.   The fly in the ointment is a tendency for arguments over details or the approaches of the other – Gemini’s is casual and easygoing, while yours is conscientious and meticulous. 

  • You and a Cancer Zodiac Sign
    You both share a caregiver urge, and can provide just the right amount of tea and sympathy for the other when needed.  Equally sensitive, what is meant as helpful advice from one of you can be viewed as criticism by the other.  A secure and healthy home is important to both of you.

  • You and a Leo Zodiac Sign
    This combination can work well as a team if each does what they do best – Leo, from a creative point of view, and you, from an analytical and practical one.  A protective and nurturing bond can exist between these two.

  • You and another Virgo Zodiac Sign
    You are devoted to each other’s needs, and with your mutual analytical ability, know just how and why your relationship works.   The occasional spats over petty details or nitpicking may occur, but on the whole, this is a rock-solid combination.

  • You and a Libra Zodiac Sign
    This combination can bring out the best in each of you.  You both have high standards to begin with, and show great consideration towards each other.   However, your “pickiness” may at times grate, while Libra’s “niceness” may also cause the occasional clash.

  • You and a Scorpio Zodiac Sign
    Neither of you probably rushed into this relationship – you both have a tendency for reserve and analyzing, and you take love seriously.  You can usually get to the root of any problems that crop up, but at times can be too demanding or critical of one another.

  • You and a Sagittarius Zodiac Sign
    This combination calls for a lot of respect for the other if it is to work.  Your styles and approaches are at odds – philosophical Sagittarius sees the big picture, while you analyze and deal with details.  But you’re both adaptable, and together you can see both the forest and the trees. 

  • You and a Capricorn Zodiac Sign
    You’re both hard workers and share common goals.  This combination can work in both business and emotional partnerships.  You know just what to expect from the other, and can supply each other’s needs.

  • You and an Aquarius Zodiac Sign
    You may have been brought together by shared ideals or a worthy cause.  You’re both “fixers,” in that you can see the flaws in personality or methods, and may attempt to make the other “better.”  If you can accept the other as they are, a true companionship can be forged.

  • You and a Pisces Zodiac Sign
    It’s a case of opposites attracting, with this combination.  There is a shared idea of perfection.  However, Pisces approaches it from a dreamy, idealistic view, while you are orderly and practical.   But both of you are nurturers, and your kindness and compassion support each other.
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    Comment #1 by lecia on March 14, 2010
    single virgo age 39; left an engagement to a wussy mama's boy 10 years ago; then boyfriend i should have married would not marry me; since then it has been a series of dating disasters and one night stands; i am sorta at a place where i am content with my life and think it may be best if i am alone unless something can really work out in a win-win, positive, light, airy way; sorta sick of what i have gone thru as most of it are dead ends to nothing and i kinda find spending time alone more appealing than enngaging in a dead end; i would like to get pregnant with a decent man with a decent genepool so i hope something happens along those lines as i seem to lack courage to go get inseminated with unknown donor sperm
    Comment #2 by melissa on February 16, 2010
    I am a Virgo and was with married to a Leo for eleven years. All he did was cheat and cheat. Then I was with a Capicorn for six years. Everything was great for te first couple years. Then he started going out every weekend and lieing and using me over and over again. He continues to come back and forth into my life. Right when I start living my life again he comes back and puts a wrench in it. Then he disappears for about a month. And the cycle continues to repeat itself over and over again. Seems like he likes to break my heart. I have started dating a Taurus now for about five months. He is the most sensitve,considerate,compassionate man I have ever met. I know we havent been together for too long but I have known him for a good ten years and I really believe that Taurus and Virgo's are a beautiful match.
    Comment #3 by Tiffany on January 29, 2010
    I am a virgo and I love myself and other's very hard. My problem is that, I haven't had a relationship that is equal to me. I will give my last and will go out my way for my mate, and all I get is taking advantage of. Therefore I end up leaving them, and they end up always begging for another chance. It could be 2 to 5 years later,and they call still asking for another chance. I'm like 'LOSER' it's too late,but I will be a friend if possible. I'm just waiting for the guy god has for me, because my picks add up to sorry stories Lol!!!
    Comment #4 by Loredana on January 22, 2010
    Hi i am also a Virgo, i just think that "Virgo", can have anything, but no Love, is like a curse.
    I start it to hate myself, I had a relationship for almost 8 years, the didnt give a s...t about it, he was like even dont care, as a revanche i got married with someone else, and now he say that is better to get back, my sincere opinion, is not working, if the love is in the beginning and the man doesnt make the big decision, with the time the love start to decrease and u understand that the best it is the frienship.
    So ... doesnt matter the astrological sign, the important is we are the problem, maybe none is to good for us or maybe we dont know to manage a relationship.
    All the best.
    Ella.
    Comment #5 by Elena on December 26, 2009
    I'm Capricorn and he is Virgo. What a beautiful combination!!! I believe I've found my soulmate. We've met 10 years ago and since then we are in love with each other. I believe many people are confused about relationships because it is not only the sun sign that matters, there are many other combinations between planets that play a big role in a relationship. I highly recommend everyone to run their astrological
    compatibility report find at:

    http://www.LoveIsInTheStars.com/SignsOfCompatibility/?s=main&e=1




    Good luck to all!!!
    Comment #6 by helen on November 28, 2009
    As a virgo woman all i can say is oh my god STOP being so negative and judgemental.You will only find love when you love yourself. Ever stopped to think you draw negativity to yourself cos your already thinking your not worth loving.I know its tough when people mistake kindness for weakness,as most virgos are kind compassionate people, but remember you reap what you sow.
    EVER HEARD OF THE LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE?
    LAWS OF ATTRACTION ? YOU DRAW IN WHAT YOU SEND OUT
    you get what you think your worth.If thats NOT ALOT then thats exactly what you'll attract.A BIG FAT ZERO
    I,m currently with an ARIES GUY whose hard work sometimes as all men seem to be,but guess what! HE,S SOOOOOOO WORTH IT.XXX

    OH BY THE WAY HAPPY HUNTING VIRGOS..........
    Comment #7 by jennifer on November 18, 2009
    i'm a female taurus married to a male virgo now for 7 years, and let me tell this has been nothing short of a roller coaster ride. He started off being the absolute love of my life, very romantic, caring, I fell head over heels and back for this man, There could be no other. I would do anything for this man. If asked to pluck a star from the sky i would a way to do it. Trust when i say, there could be no other! THEN WE GOT MARRIED! Happiest day of my life! Then things changed pretty quickly. It started to be him going out leaving me home alone until 4 and 5 in morning, no calls to say even say hey i'm still alive, nothing. I dealt with it cuz I figured you it takes time to adjust to a different lifestlye marriage is no exception. We had a daughter about 1year into it. Happiest day of my life! Then i truly started to see how this person that i adored really felt about me, he didn't the selfishness and the all about me attitude came out BIG TIME.Long story short now, i'm currently seeking a divorce. I refuse to continue to be with someone who could care less about me. To all you virgos out there,here's so friendly advice. Please don't take this the wrong way at all. Cuz you guys tend to be such perfectionists, you sometimes let goods things slip thru your fingers with no thought, think about your part in the relationship, and if your inthe wrong sometimes a simple apology will fix everything, don't be so stubborn,cuz your not always right. Include your partner in your world that's the only way you can grow together, be honest and trust cuz that's the only way your relationships are gonna survive, and last but not least dont be so judgemental cuz nothing in this world is perfect only the man upstairs. 1 love
    Comment #8 by Pearl on November 15, 2009
    #53 to Amy: Perhaps it's too late, but if you're considering running, do it *before* you get married.
    Comment #9 by Pearl on November 15, 2009
    Sorry! That was comment #7 by Janet that I was responding to.
    Comment #10 by Pearl on November 15, 2009
    Re: Comment #6. I. too, was married to an alcoholic and suffered every abuse but the physical beating. I understand only too well the loneliness and pain of being alone! I was solitary until I was nearly 61. In fact, it was on July 9, 2008 we met. We are now engaged and to say we are happy is putting it mildly!!! He is my soul-mate so don't give up hope! Magick *IS* in the air... and it's listening! ;)
    Comment #11 by Pearl on November 15, 2009
    I am a Virgo and have met my perfect mate.... another Virgo!
    Comment #12 by deborah on November 15, 2009
    no one is compatable with us...aquarius wont leave us alone for some reason
    Comment #13 by jean marie on November 12, 2009
    i am an scorpio s virgo compatible to me/
    Comment #14 by Sharon on November 11, 2009
    Comment #150 by Sharon on February 11, 2009


    I am a pisces and I have been involved with a Virgo is this a good match or bad?
    Comment #15 by Michelle on October 29, 2009
    To comment #1 by Michelle on October 28, 2009
    ............................................
    I'm not totally sure that the personality traits you describe with your (ex)Leo partner are necessarily "leo," as they sound like just the traits of an "alcoholic." I was married to a "Taurus" for 20 years - he was the love of my life - for the first 9 or so years he was what I would call a sober-drunk; but for the most part we were happy. Then he started drinking again - not sure why, but I don't even pretend to understand the alcholic mindset. Anyway, everything you descibe is I think true of "addicts" whether they be alcoholics, etc. The blame game, road-rage, mental, emotional abuse. My problem is that up 'till the day I walked out; I was taught to believe it could only be called "abuse" if it was physical and I stuck it out until he beat me "black/blue" in front of our two kids before I left. I wasted soooo much time - kuddos! to you and others who had the sense to get out before you wasted too much of your life on their problems and their issues and for those of you hoping he will change....well if you are a stubborn virgo like I am, you may just have to learn it on your own; bottom-line, life is just too dang short! Awesome quote and words to live by: "If it is to be, it is up to me!" Take Care!
    Comment #16 by Janet on October 23, 2009
    To comments 109 & 135.. I totally agree to the description of Leo men. I'm a Virgo & my EX is a Leo & the world had to revolve around him. If it didn't he was moody & quick to anger. He was also an alcoholic, & always blaming the things that he caused or did one someone else, NEVER taking responsibility for his own actions. Most of the time everything was my fault, even his road-rage. H e always tried to act like someone else & didn't know who HE was. In his favor he "could" be very loving when he wanted to be & would do anything for any one & give the shirt off his back to a friend. But at home things were different. He didn't appreciate anything I did. After 8 years of trying to set a good example & give him a loving home, the bad was outweighing the good way too much. I couldn't take any more of the mental abuse & arguing because it started to affect my health. I finally gave up. It was a hard decision to make but the love on my part was gone & I couldn't live a lie any longer. We split. It's been 8 years now & the last I heard(6 years ago)he's been with any woman that will have him. I've dated & haven't found anyone yet. I'm still alone & it IS lonely & very hard, but I'm taking care of myself for a change. I'm 53 now & I try to believe there could be someone special meant just for me. I hope all the single Virgos find their special mate. Just believe..
    Comment #17 by IDROS on October 23, 2009
    i vigor and get married to scorpion for 8 years, but end, now im single again, i try to keep d married but she don want it anymore,(sort story not rich guy) so single is better for now
    Comment #18 by shweta on October 20, 2009
    I m virgo and got married with Leo. I always fight with him.. what should i do to overcome my fightful nature???
    Comment #19 by gabriela on October 18, 2009
    i am pisces I am in compromisse with virgo man but virgos is very complicat with jobs very busy him only think progress in works and money drink but not have moral heart for love I trated of win to virgo teach the better of love and to be happy him like stay only free but have big mistakes about all not sure in all for he need all help for see true love why still are delicat they
    Comment #20 by Ahmet on October 17, 2009
    I am a 30 yr old Virgo, and currently married to a Gemini. Sometimes I think she is my soulmate, but then there are times that I think she is my nemesis. All I know is that through my past interludes with other signs, it's always been the same. There good times and there are bad times. There are good things in people and there bad things. As Virgos I think we seek too much perfection and end up being disappointed. To all virgos, take care of things we have control of, and the rest close your eyes and pretend you are living in that "perfect world". It works for me. Sometimes. LOL!!
    Comment #21 by Eric on October 16, 2009
    I am a 36 yr old Virgo, who has dated at least one person from each of the other signs, still , I am single and no matches. I am not hard to get along with, but relationships just don't seem to work. I have a great job, and have a pretty good salary. If being alone didn't suck so much, I'd have it all..... Anyone have any ideas?
    Comment #22 by Diana on October 16, 2009
    I am a 38 yr old Virgo, going through a divorce that I do not want. He is a Virgo as well and 7 yrs. younger than I am. He is and will always be the love of my life. Yet as a Virgo, stubborn and always right (both of us); when you had enough, you had enough.... Moreover, just try to start life again new and apart.... You cannot force a person to change and you should not have to want a person to change. I was with a man who was a Taurus. He was very abusive physically and mentally. Due to my stubborn, and always right attitude (and just got dumped by my husband of 4 yrs and 1 son later***2 1/2 yr old Capricorn....) I stayed in the abusive relationship out of devotion and not love....Through all of the bad and very little of the good ---which was only our sex life....He is now in jail waiting to be sentenced. THANK GOD,...He was the worst for my family and me. I will care for him since we were together...yet I cannot respect him or forget what evil things he has done. I have been with several signs...Not that I get around; it is a long life and have been with my partners for several months or even years---always start as friends and if anything goes wrong then, maybe you can end back up as friends again, hopefully.... I found from my relationships that Leo is match for being content with and not for love... As for Scorpio, this one is an ego stroking and uncommitted sign for me. Male Virgos are fun to be around yet from the past relationship scars endured, female Virgos just can't get past it and see signs of behavior that we seem to point out when it may just be signs we see in our own fantasy or nightmarish thoughts of naive, intentionally so we won't be hurt again in never never again land. Capricorns start liking the differences Virgos show then tend to, over time, want to change those very things in Virgos that they were once attracted to in you. So right now I am single and dating (not getting into any relationship) just trying to find my own self again so I can be productive for my son and my family. I have not been myself for the last 2 yrs and it seems it is easier living in chaos then stability. I want a normal life again. Yet how can you do that unless you win the lottery, pay back every one that has helped you with interest, then get amnesia so you forget the relationship scars you have endured throughout this long life to give anyone a fair chance in my hell I have created here....Yet I am hopeful in finding another mister right. It is that gambler in me that will always take that chance...Yet the odds are not in my favor, it seems. Fun and love with other Virgos just too bullheaded to stick it out.
    Diana
    Comment #23 by Elizabeth on October 16, 2009
    I was born 9-6-66 and i am convinced there is not a soul mate for me.
    Comment #24 by Lucinda on October 16, 2009
    By Cindy: I am a virgo and he is a virgo. We get along great we have so much in common, we are so in sync with each other. We have been together for 20 months and these have been the best months of my life and I am 53. We do not live together yet and are an hour away from each other. We prepare all the meals together and have fun doing it. He is an amazing person. We actually went to high school together, and lost contact until a couple years ago. I never believed that life could be this wonderful with someone. Our birthday's are two days apart and he is a year younger. I am looking forward to spending the rest of my life with him.
    Comment #25 by Elizabeth on October 13, 2009
    I've been with a Picses off and on for 2 years and when I wasn't with him, I dated a Scorpio and a Cancer. The Cancer was the best match by far, often attending to my needs before I could even notice they WERE needs!! It ended on a rather strange note, seeing as there were things going around church about us and he didn't like the fact that people were meddleing in our business. It was a mutual split, but we still have a mutual attraction toward each other, that due to circumstances, we remain apart. My heart longs for him every day.
    Comment #26 by Lynndawn on October 10, 2009
    Virgoans have the ability to use all that practical, analytical brain matter for positive outcomes. My opinion as a half-century young Virgo Lady evolved over living and loving life. . .including two marriages, two children and being widowed at forty-eight. The man I finally exchanged passion with, and found that true "other sock" feeling in a matched pair of sox, my soul mate of soul mates was my Scorpio love of all time. We were not on paper married, but surely were devoted in spirit and heart. The passion I have for all things as a Virgo, and the true passion of my Scorpio man were sizzlin' soul to soul for over five years. He suddenly passed of a heart attack in the home we shared at 44 years young. Still, I find great gratitude for the time we were granted. As a Scorpio, he was not a cheater because (I think) his first marriage of 18 years busted because she was a heinous cheater and hurt him so terribly. Scorpios come in three basic varities according to how evolved they have become. The highest-thinking type of Scorpio evolution is The Eagle. . .where Scorpios really soar, like in the sky and just excel with great charisma and magnetism. Middle of the road in Scorpio evolution is The Gray Lizard, and not specifically fixed, but changeable. The Scorpion type Scorpios, below the Gray Lizards have such a dark tendency. . .and they all know it and have to guard against it as that stage of evolution can be all consuming of others and the Scorpion himself. For passion, though, unbridled and intense in all ways--they are the ace. The first husband, Pisces was constantly governed by two fish tied together, yet swimming in opposite directions. Too much conflict for this Virgo Lady. Second husband, any Sag that drinks Jim Beam more than water is a beautiful waste of four years of hard work in a relationship called marriage. The fish (Pisces) was torn toward the sea (fisherman) and the Sag was torn toward Jim Beam way too far. The Scorpio was my "other sock." Sadly, although we wanted 40 more years, he passed on to be an Angel. The dance of love continues in the heart, though, and that is another story altogether. My opinion is that any sign can work. Both my brothers are Virgoans. I can't imagine them as anyone's prize, although both are married heterosexuals. Scorpio-Virgo is a passion pit combination, when is cast right. It seems any combos can work, it is really about the people, with astrology being only one facet of each of us. Happily ever after is my goal. I am grateful. I am blessed. I am comfortable alone. I would love a special man to share all of life with. There are no magic wands. God has a plan, and I listen with my heart (but. . .then there is the Virgo logic) and love like I have never been hurt before, and dance like nobody's watching with full-on heartbeats. May all who read here find Peace, Love, Light and Truth--Lynn the TreeLady in Ohio
    Comment #27 by Billie on October 08, 2009
    #134, I have found that Taurus is the most compatible for Virgos. I have dated plenty and even though they ended, they ended on good terms. My mother is a Taurus and I am sure if it wasn't because of that we wouldn't be as close as we are (because she drives me nuts). Surprisingly a majority of my friends are also Taurus's.
    Comment #28 by Lyndsay on October 01, 2009
    I too thought Virgo's were most compatible with Capricorns but maybe not so!! My ex is a capricorn and our relationship was solid at the start but the minute we moved in he ran for the hills..booo!! We have been split for a long time and still he comes bounding back the minute i get on with life..arggghhh!!! My best mate is a cap and we click so much and that confuses me..lol I haven't yet found another and part of me thinks it's because i'm too fussy or that i want another like the capricorn as it once was perfect..HELP..:(
    Comment #29 by patricia on September 25, 2009
    I am a virgo and he is a virgo, why is it that we only get along as we are apart and not under the same roof?
    Comment #30 by karen on September 18, 2009
    Hello: I'm a virgo and dated a cancer he is judgemental.I brokeit off since then I'm dating a man who was born on 6-20-63 he is only 3mths older then me.Talk about moody.We only had 1 argument but I love him to death,is there any future in this realationship that might just go a little farther?I am a woman who was born 9-1-63
    Comment #31 by teresa on September 16, 2009
    he is a virgo n i am a pisces we plant on gettin marry next year.do you think it will work out i hope so
    Comment #32 by marlyne on September 14, 2009
    i am a gemini and have read a lot of bad stuff from you guys about gemini. maybe it is the male gemini that are so tough. and the women virgo are great. i am a female gemini and i was married to a virgo the worst thing i could have done. dated another in college b4 getting married Jealous like no one else and i know i did not give him any reason too. the one after my marriage was also a virgo dont know his mind let his family controls him and a cheater. so I am sorry virgos (ladies) I got nothing good to say about a virgo guy. they want to be baby they want attention all the time. sloppy like crazy. affectionate yes but liars and moody.
    Comment #33 by Hadayah on September 14, 2009
    To comment #11 I concur with on those Sagittarius I was married to on for 5 years. They are very tricky they'll have you thinking they're on your side and it's relly all about them. Sagittarians will fool you like they have a good heart and are concern but it's for their own good. My EX-husband promised me that I would leave our relationship with one of the many homes we owned together. He gave me a small sum said he would buy me out, knowing I had children and needed the money. After all was said and done he bilk me out of EVERYTHING for a misley 5,000. And when he feels the need he will still email me 5yrs later for sex. CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT! Never cared anymore!
    I'm now seeing and have been for the last 4yrs and 6mos. a wonderful young 28yr old Aquarian man. Who keeps my young 43yr young spirit ALIVE!
    I was born on 9/11 since 2001 I have to go at it a little harder now to make the day a wonderful one. Hold ya heads LOVE is out here just stay true to yourself and love. FYI:LOVING YOURSELF COMES FIRST!
    Comment #34 by melissa on September 14, 2009
    I am a virgo and my soulmate is a libra he is sex and cute. And yes at times he is a major pain in the ass but who anit, I miss him I hate I WEIGHT A TON but this man showed me love and made me want to be more even though I had a felony on my name. I REMEMBER WHEN MICHEAL JACKSON DIED I felt like my world died too but I KEPT WORRYING ABOUT MY libra man like people in 911 I sleep with my libra man picture and I AM HAVING SURGRY ON HIS BIRTHDAY LOVE YOU BABY
    Comment #35 by melissa on September 14, 2009
    I am a virgo and my soulmate is a libra he is sex and cute. And yes at times he is a major pain in the ass but who anit, I miss him I hate I WEIGHT A TON but this man showed me love and made me want to be more even though I had a felony on my name. I REMEMBER WHEN MICHEAL JACKSON DIED I felt like my world died too but I KEPT WORRYING ABOUT MY libra man like people in 911 I sleep with my libra man picture and I AM HAVING SURGRY ON HIS BIRTHDAY LOVE YOU BABY
    Comment #36 by melissa on September 14, 2009
    I am a virgo and my soulmate is a libra he is sex and cute. And yes at times he is a major pain in the ass but who anit, I miss him I hate I WEIGHT A TON but this man showed me love and made me want to be more even though I had a felony on my name. I REMEMBER WHEN MICHEAL JACKSON DIED I felt like my world died too but I KEPT WORRYING ABOUT MY libra man like people in 911 I sleep with my libra man picture and I AM HAVING SURGRY ON HIS BIRTHDAY LOVE YOU BABY
    Comment #37 by melissa on September 14, 2009
    I am a virgo and my soulmate is a libra he is sex and cute. And yes at times he is a major pain in the ass but who anit, I miss him I hate I WEIGHT A TON but this man showed me love and made me want to be more even though I had a felony on my name. I REMEMBER WHEN MICHEAL JACKSON DIED I felt like my world died too but I KEPT WORRYING ABOUT MY libra man like people in 911 I sleep with my libra man picture and I AM HAVING SURGRY ON HIS BIRTHDAY LOVE YOU BABY
    Comment #38 by Bonita on September 10, 2009
    AS aLEO I HAVE TO SAY VIRGO WAS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.
    Comment #39 by audrey on September 09, 2009
    please make shure my sweet freind i get my two orders on time thanks your freind audrey marshall mccoy
    Comment #40 by Tamar on September 03, 2009
    For comment #119 you are absolutly right. I'm a virgo women and I'm dating a cappricorn, were going on two years now and we've recently moved into a house together. I never thought I could be so happy with someone.Everything just seems to click. It feels so great to be in a relationship that just flows so well without even trying I definently found my SOUL MATE!!!!! :)
    Comment #41 by Doug on September 03, 2009
    I"am a virgo female and been with a Libra for 14 years ups and downs all the time mainly downs. Unfortunely I still love him
    Comment #42 by Maryann on August 28, 2009
    I am a Virgo Woman. Was married to a Scorpio man for 30 years. He was the worse a Scorpio could be. He lied, stole, abused, drank & was plain evil! As a lover he was great! As far as cheating goes, I don't think this was ever an issue. IF it was something he did, I didn't know. His way of raising the children was a problem at times too(not a real parent). He was the worse in a spouse for a Virgo!

    Maryann
    Comment #43 by anita on August 27, 2009
    Comment #44 by Juan Javier on August 27, 2009
    Hello my name is John and My other half's name is Manuel, I will tell you this he is a Sagitarious, I am a virgo , very analytical and precise and Orghanized, Sagitarius is so unorganized dirty and throws everything on the floor and piles of junk everywhere and this drives me nuts, always picking up after him, but oh when he's having company come over, he picks up and the apt looks like a mansion, but as soon as his friends leave, he makes a messs everywhere... I hate it.... in any case our romantic status....totally sucks, I came here from California, (BIG MISTAKE!! HUGE! Humongous!!)I left all my friends and where I lived to come and live with him, of course I had no other family but my children but they liove with their mother, they hardly ever visited me , I visited them more though. I anyways I never had interest in males when young but one day I had an experience with a friend at her house, and that's when I realized I liked guys, i wasn't married, i had been divorced for 4 years when this took place, but I did not do anything with this guy, okay time goes by, and I finally talk to a couselor because I needed to find myself, and I did, so when I meet Manuel, in Georgia I leave everything to come and meet him, I met him, I liked him he liked me he was and is too young but he said I want to live a life with you, be cause I like older men, he is 27, I am 44 I am still young at heart, people think I am 32 years old, my lover as you would say looks older a bit when he's a work but when he's all dressed up to go out, he looks mighty fine, he looks his age and I admire him, I moved here hoping for the best, when I moved here everything was sugar and spice, it being my one and first and only relationship with a man, I didn't know what to expect and still dont know a few other things, I am a 1 man-man, as I was once a 1 woman-man, I like to respect and expect the same, I am loyal and expect the same, I am sincere and open and expect the same, after I had moved here and lived together for 5 months, I had to make a trip out of the state, but when I came back Manuel acted distant with me, I told him this is what I told you from the beginning g which i mentioned one day you'll meet somebody younger and you'll want to go with him, and I don't want to say, one day i never should have taken the step to move here for you, in any case I noticed him distant from me and when I wanted to hug him he would pull away from me , I let it go, then one day he said he was going to the dancing and did n t even think to ask me to come with him, so i stayed home, didn't do anything , waited for him all night then he finally came home at about 2 in the morning, he went to sleep and I stayed up in the living room, at abt 4 am the neighbor came over and asked if i would let him use the bathroom, he had left his house keys in his friends car, he had a few beers on him and a 12 pak right outside the door, he started to aske me if i wanted to drink I was so upset with my manuel, I said sure, being that I dont know how to hold a beer in my system I started to feel funny, then he came my neighbor made a pass at me, and I went for it, I guess I was a little drunk while my Manuel was asleep in the bedroom i was cheating on him with another guy, his name was Mannuel also... this guy was 24 years old, and he asked me to leave my Manuel cause all he wanted from me was my money, not that I have a lot, but he said he is only with you for the convenience of what you can offer him, but the fact of the matter was that I had sex with this guy right under My Manuels nose,,,, but Manuel never knew what happened, until one day I told him why are you so distant from me, he only looked at me and tears came out his eyes, and he said I am seein g someone else, I already knew that, so I told him totake his stuff and get out of my house, he said he couldn't because he loved me too, I said no way, get out, but never did, and me being that I never really knew how to handle a relationship and afraid to lose him, I allowed his relationship with the other guy, you're probably going to say what I did was totally crazy, My Mnuel broguht his lover, with him every night to my apt, I know it's crazy, but he did, and while they slept in the living room, I was in my bedroom, i dont know how I was able to deal with that, so then he told me okay you cheated on me so this i do to you, my 2nd mistake had been that I did not feel comfortable with what I had done , so I told my Manuel that I had cheated on him, he got mad and all, but he said it is better to be truthful with each other, , but I repented from it and accepted my fualt, yet he never forgave me, always pusing it on me, and while he was with the other guy, sure it made me mad, and I never had sex or made love with Manuel while he was with the other guy, so now time passed and when herealized he and the other guy were not doing good, and that he found him (the other guy) with another man, that made him mad, and they broke up after a relationship of 5 months, he, Manuel is still with me, but I don't trust him, I fell out of love with him , yes I love him and care for him but I am no longer in love with him, he still lives here with me but there is no relationship though he thinks there is, but when he wants to make love, I just make myself go to sleep and dont do anything with him he totally broke my heart, I know I goofed up first but I accepted my fualt and he never did accept his fault he always tells me that he did it out of anger, and for that reason I do not trust him anymore,, i can't , and when you dont love that person life is worthless,,,,, Sagitarius are so hot at times, and because of that i will never be with another sagitarious, again in my life, now I just want him to leave.....that is my life with a sagitarius...dont trust them all the way...John
    Comment #45 by Kehinde on August 23, 2009
    wow, this is really scary , i tot i had issues but i realised it's not me bcos i beleive virgos are adaptable and lovely people but its just the guys, i am not married but with a gemini and all we do is argue. God please give me my soul mate . Wishing all the virgos true love as well.
    Comment #46 by Laurie on August 21, 2009
    Ok.Here it goes...From what I have read so far on all of these comments is that for every zodiac sign, there is good and bad in everyone. There is no set "rule" as to what sign belongs with which. You need to remember that people are just that...people. The zodiac personality traits are supposed to be guidelines. To give you an idea of what MIGHT be part of that person's personality.Not all Virgos were raised in the MidWest(like me) and not all Capricorns are as loving as one of my past loves. I have married a Sagitarrius (10 yrs and 3 kids later, he decides he needs to experience life), and after 10 years as a single mom, I married a Scorpio. Ten years later and after raising his two sons, while raising my four kids, without any kind of intimate relationship between us, I have decided that if there will be a third husband, he will come into my life when I am ready and when God says it is time.Trust in the Lord, and be content with yourself. If you don't like living with you, how can you expect someone else to.
    Comment #47 by Rachel on August 20, 2009
    I am a virgo I've been with a Gemini for 5 years and its the worst! He's cheated on me drained me physically emotionally financially. I wanted to stay with him because we a have baby together but I can't handle it anymore. I've read out compatibilty things alot and its says we are the sunniest signs in the zodiac together....pfft. I don't believe it. We can't communicate period. He's like jekyl and hyde (go figure). I've been talking to a Scorpio though and He seems to really understand me. All I had with the Gemini was great sex. I need more than that. I hope this Scorpio is what he seems to be. I'm passionate he is too. I don't know I'm so torn up I can't stand it. My baby girl is 22 months old and she was born Dec 18. I hope we get along. When she gets older.
    Rachel
    Comment #48 by Andi on August 19, 2009
    I am a Leo with no major aspects to my sun except a talent to my moon exalted in Taurus in the House of Dreams. Already an engineer, I did not start doing charts until I graduated college. I did my own. I have five children now and do theirs too. I like to do my own from of astrology combining music, colors, and the chart as the first song you heard when entering the universe and leaving the womb. It does not define us, but it does affect us. I have Virgo at 00 01 Virgo in the 12th house, 7 Virgo rising, !0 Virgo Venus, and 28 Virgo Saturn, all in the first house. Talk about a mixed up vibe. My talents are many and my soul mates have come and gone a few times. I think there are many, for we are all one song in the beginning to the end. We have co-creative capacity to sing in harmony so let us do so! Love, andi
    Here is a good quote to help in any relationship:
    "When someone knows they are loved unconditionally, they find freedom. It creates a Sanctuary. Love longs to be known. All we have to do is clear the way for it."
    From A Traveling Peoples' Feild Guide, By Feild.
    Comment #49 by jean on August 16, 2009
    im a scorpio female .i would love to find my soul mate. i was married 4 28yrs , to a virgo. he wasnt very nice to me .he got worse as he got older. i was in a lonley marrage 6 of those yrs .so i asked him to leave. theres has to be some one god will send me . wish me luck. jeannie
    Comment #50 by Mari on August 16, 2009
    I am also a female virgo. I was married ten years to a leo. He was the most insecure man. Rightfully so. I am now married to a Sagittarius. He is wonderful to me. However we are different. Thank GOD! If we were both alike I would probably be insane. My advice is...its not what "sign" they are. It is the way they are raised. All people are different. I don't think that signs come into play. Most men cheat if given the opportunity to. They don't have to be in love to cheat. They just do it...to do it. On the other hand, woman cheat if their emotional needs aren't being met in a relationship. I also believe that people give up on relationships way to quickly. Take time before you commit to a relationship and take time before you end a realationship. I am a true virgo....think before you act....and I do try not to be tooooooo...and i stress toooooo critical of others.
    Comment #51 by tekena on August 14, 2009
    Hello everyone, I am also a Virgo(Sept 1st) and I can totally relate to all of youguy's here..I have had a caner.(Big Mistake), Gemini (Better off as friends), Capricorn we are still close since we have 3 children together, we are more like best friends then anything. So that's my past relationships..The relationship I am in NOW, he is a taurus, May 1st, can anyone tell me a lil about that sign please...ty..
    Comment #52 by Christie on August 14, 2009
    aquarius is NOT 4 A VIRGO
    Comment #53 by lori on August 14, 2009
    im a virgo and the man im datig is a libra for the most part we get along but then he gets really angry and we get into a fight,were both strong about whos right n whos wrong but in the long run we both end up agreeing with one another is this relationship going in the wrong direction or is this fate we've been at this for over 15 years now and im starting to get tired of it all any suggestions it be greatly appreciated
    Comment #54 by Rebecah on August 12, 2009
    Never say never . . . I found my soulmate after 20 years of being single. Married once, to a leo...omg was that a mistake. I am marrying in october to a wonderful cancerian. We adore each other and have so much in common that within two hours of meeting, we were completing one another's sentences. Don't give up or give in. Believe in God's divine plan. Just when you aren't looking, it happens out of the blue.
    Comment #55 by Janice on August 12, 2009
    I agree w/Barb. I on the otherhand am a Taurus and my Ex-husband was a Taurus as well and I had the same outcome in our relationship.
    Comment #56 by Barb on August 09, 2009
    Just remember there are two sides to every sign. I a Virgo and was married to a Virgo for 14 yrs. He was so opposite of me, I was devoted to him and our children all he cared about was himself.
    Comment #57 by Bridgette on August 07, 2009
    LEOS AND VIRGOS DONT MIX CUZ YOU VIRGOS ARE SO DAMN COMPLEX AND CANT JUST LEAVE THINGS BE YOU HAVE TO ANALYZE EVERYTHING AND NEVER PAY YOUR BILLS ON TIME AND TAKE FOREVER TO DO THINGS IM A LEO ON A CUSP WITH CANCER AND BEEN WITH THREE VIRGOS WITH ONE NOW FOR LAST FOUR YEARS RAISING HIS FOUR BOYS THAT HE HAS FULL CUSTODY OF I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT TAKE MY ADVICE BE MORE SIMPLE AND OUTGOING AND ALWAYS PRAISE A LEO OR FORGET IT THEY WILL MOVE ON AND GET BORED WITH YOU QUICK WITH NO REGRETS AT ALL. HOPE THIS HELPS.
    Comment #58 by Ruthie on July 29, 2009
    This is for Amy (July 20)- follow your heart- just because one cheats doesn't mean this one will. I'm happily married to a Scorpio(I am also a Virgo) - never been happier. Married to a Pisces before - he cheated so many times I can't count. Get married and be very happy.
    Comment #59 by Sharon on July 29, 2009
    I was married to a Gemini and divorced for sanity's sake, but I was never in love with him, I married him while I was in love with an Aquarius things happen in life ya know, anyway it's been over 12 years and my aquarius is back we are dating after both being divorced and I feel more in love now than I was before, being friend first really helps alot we mature thank god.
    Comment #60 by april on July 20, 2009
    I think you might be afrade he might do the same thing that happened in your last relationship. Your unwittingly making him pay for it, that mixed with the nerveness you feel about takeing the big step of marrige. You should think about these things it's ok but remember the reason you said yes, rather than what might or might not happen later on. One mans mistakes isn't another mans mistakes.Hope this helps...
    Comment #61 by Amy on July 20, 2009
    I AM A VIRGO LADY AND I AM TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH A SCORPIO MAN NOW, MY LAST RELATIONSHIP WAS ALSO WITH A SCORPIO MAN AND HE CHEATED ON ME NOT ONCE BUT TWICE. I FORGAVE HIM BUT I WAS NO LONGER IN LOVE WITH HIM AFTER HE CHEATED, I AM WONDERING IF IT IS GOING TO REPEAT ITSELF. OR AM I JUDGING ONE MAN BY ANOTHER'S MISTAKES. I AM TO BE MARRIED NEXT MONTH AND AM ON THE VERGE OF BEING THE RUN AWAY BRIDE, ANYONE WITH SOME GOOD ADVICE?
    Comment #62 by Gloria on July 19, 2009
    Aren't we all virgos here? Well since we are saying that we would like to be with other virgos, why don't you guys just introduce yourselves to each other here. I am a single virgo too and like all you virgos struggle to find that special one. I think we are all just to picky. Anyway I'm a female, 30 with three kids. If there is another virgo man here send me a message.
    Comment #63 by cynthia on July 18, 2009
    I am a female virgo and have been dating a cancer off and on, more on than off. I want to get rid of him even though I know I love him-the problem is that he is so sensitive and quite emotional and you feel like your'e walking on eggs when you're around him especially if he is having his typical mood swings. What's funny is I have 3 boys: 2,13, and 21. Out of the 3 two are cancers (2,21 yr. old) and the 13yr old is a capricorn. The relationship I have with the 13yr old is so open and easy-going. The youngest and the oldest have similar characteristics-trust me this will be such a joyous adventure to see all three of them grow. I think I would do better with earth signs.
    Comment #64 by marlene on July 18, 2009
    so much i wanted to be with a virgo.But he move out of state. he still calls.pretty much i was getting over him til we ran into each other. but i'll be here for him. see where things goes.
    Comment #65 by debra on July 09, 2009
    I HAVE BEEN MARRIED AND DIVORCED 3 TIMES,EACH A DIFFERENT SIGN,PISCES,AIRES,AQUARIUS,AND NOW I AM SEARCHING FOR THE HEART OF SOMEONE,NO MATTER WHAT SIGN THEY ARE.I AM A SPIRITUAL PERSON,AND TEND TO LET THE GOD I BELIEVE IN DIRECT MY WAY.IF SOMEONE AKS ME"WHY ARE YOU STILL BY YOURSELF ?"I REPLY ,WELL,GOD IS JUST WORKING ON THE BEST MAN FOR ME.MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT FROM THE GET-GO,SO COMMUNICATION,AND BE RESPECTFUL OF ANOTHER'S FEELINGS AND DIFFERENCES,AND ABOVE ALL LOVE.SO TAKE THE TIME TO SEE YOUR PARTNER;S POINT OF VIEW.OPPOSITES SOMETIMES ATTRACT,AND WE LEARN FROM OTHERS,AND IT MAKES IT A MUCH MORE INTERESTING WORLD,FOR ALL OF US TO BE UNIQUE.THANK-YOU AND GOD BLESS,DEBRA
    Comment #66 by Danny on July 08, 2009
    I am a Virgo and was once married to a Virgo. I have never been so happy. We broke up 15yrs ago. I remarried a Gemini, what a BIG Mistake. We are no longer living together. I am a little more happy. I guess the best person for me would be another Virgo.
    Comment #67 by Nikki on July 06, 2009
    #92. I agree with u. I met a Capricorn 9 years ago. We were off and on again, but remained really really good friends.During the roughest time n my life he popped back up out of the blue! We talk about everything. When I needed him the most he was there. Our love is unconditional...I decided if I'm going to be married to anyone again (yes,again) it would be someone who loves me,understands me, who loves the simple things n life,n connects with me on so many different levels. We talk about everything! Which is so important to us.He is a hard worker and so am I. I'm n love with him!He's my soulmate! I pray God blesses our relationship,so that we be together, forever.
    Comment #68 by Carol on July 02, 2009
    I have decide that the picky part of my nature is served me well.I want to meet my soul mate sometime soon im ready.Carol
    Comment #69 by Coral on July 02, 2009
    Been a struggling single mom for years now and I am thinking that having a mate is not in the cards for me anytime soon. just leaving it up to my higher power. I guess I will now when the time comes. we Virgo's are picky creatures.
    Comment #70 by wazhma on June 19, 2009
    Julia, Ohhhhh my GOD....we are Virgos....as a Virgos it is almost impossible to find a guy who deserve us. I was married for 3 years with an ass hole Gemini...got my divorce, Now I am dating Taurus...very nice guy....but super moody. all the Men can't find a woman like a Virgo. We are beautiful, honest, jealous, happy, sexy, smart, one of a kind which is almost imposable to find. We scared them. Love all my Virgos. And Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes we are picky and like to stay single for a long time.
    Comment #71 by Peggy on June 17, 2009
    I am a 44 year old virgo and damn proud of it! I waited 10 1/2 years single and celibut. Gave it over to God and thought that maybe he wanted me to be single. Well....I met my soulmate a Leo and have learned a lot about myself and how to maintain a relationship. As a virgo, I haven't in the past, put up with anything I was not happy with. (when I say give up, I mean, I ended it) Mr. Leo is a wonderful man with all of his crap in one bag. He treats me like a queen but we have had our disagreements and he has taught me how to come back from an argument and still love. Anyway, to the virgo out there that has given it to God, don't give up! He really does want you to have a soulmate.
    Comment #72 by thelma on June 15, 2009
    i am about to marry a virgo hes the best romantic loving and sexybut very skeptic his baby mama is dying for him but she tries to xcontrol him.but i am the love of his life we understands each other,he kisses me every sec of the day and hugs me all the time,all they need is for you to be truthful and kind and treat them with respect
    Comment #73 by Cecilia on June 13, 2009
    I am a virgo (9-11) and married to Aquarius. Life is crazy we have our ups and downs but dont truley know if he is my true soulmate. For some reason all i've dated is aquarius, just something about them attractes me but then later on we start falling apart ( Cannot explain that). Love him very much but still unsure if we will end up together forever. We as virgos are very undecisive. I have had opportunites in the past with pisces, taurus, sagittarius which were very strong and then I was the one to back up. Loved each one in there own way but didnt know if that person was the right one for me. I read a comment here and it said that we virgos think too much about something we always think about the pros and the cons about things and miss the fun of any situation. I've learned with aquarius to let loose and just live life to the fullest I guess maybe thats why im soo attracted to them. I guess he is my soulmate after all lol (just thought about that).ce
    Comment #74 by kristie on June 12, 2009
    i'm a single female virgo, was married to a saggitarius for 16 years then we divorced in sept. 2008 and to this very day i have not found my soulmate it makes me wonder if i'll every find my soulmate i guess it's a virgo thang!! -kisser-
    Comment #75 by Carolyn on June 12, 2009
    Hi i`m a virgo and i am alone and want my soulmate. but it seem to me no one want to be with me cause i don`t take no man bullshit. Like i tell men when you cheat it time for you to leave or me if you won`t let me go then i`m goin to cheat on you, so the best thing to do is disappear. that what i tell them and they say they will break my neck. my thing is why would you break my neck if you the one cheating on me yeah right. I try to not let love hurt me it too many other things out here to worry about beside a man . Stay strong and not let a man bring you down. The only man that suppose to bring you down is god not man. when it over hold your head up high and walk proudly and when he see you he will be damn who she with that keep her happy. good luck to all us virgo. Im dealing with an aries asshole and i. i`m goin to email him to let him know its over over over. Got to deal with the bull once i let him know but who care i don`t. Carolyn
    Comment #76 by Patti on June 11, 2009
    Why are there so many single Virgos. I have been single for 20 years now. Married twice and kinda gave up. I make horrible choices when it comes to Love. So, I just quit making them. I am very lonely now at the age of 52 and would like to find my life long companion. I have kept the faith for years that God will send me the right one when I am ready. I don't know, if he don't hurry up it will be too late. LOL
    Comment #77 by Sally on June 11, 2009
    hi im a virgo libra cusp what the heak am i going to do? its so hard for me to find a good man. one that i can meld with, because i have a duality in my personality people think im on the crazy side. i tend to chainge up so again any input would be helpfull thanks confused woman in Ohio
    Comment #78 by Carolyn on June 11, 2009
    I am a Saggitarius female in a relationship with a Virgo man. He is my best friend. We are both older (and wiser) and both of our Moons are in Cancer, and risings are fire signs. I used to not get along with Virgo males until I met this one, just goes to show that we shouldn't have preconceived notions. You don't know what your missing.
    Comment #79 by Quiona on June 11, 2009
    This is not cool! I am getting really nervous becuase I always felt like I will be alone for the rest of my life and when I hear 50 year old virgos still looking for their soulmate I get very scared. Right now I am so attracted to a Sagitarian. He is my friend and I enjoy our conversations, I wonder will he be the one or am I just wasting time again! Q
    9/16/2009
    Guess what I was wasting my time. He asked be to borrow money and I let him borrow the money being who I am (Virgo. Do you know he thought he didnt have to pay me back, I am glad I kept that promisary note. Eventually he paid me back, but I never want to see him a gain in my life. I am now dating an Aquarius man that seems to be sincere about his feelings for me but is so mysterious. I met him 4 months ago and he wants me to move to VA with him. I do have a certain attraction to him and it was almost instant. I just hope that I am not wasting my time again. Q
    Comment #80 by Beverly on June 05, 2009
    The best love a Virgo will ever find is another Virgo. No explaining of moods. There's mutual respect and it's the best combination for getting things done and Virgo men will treat you like Queens if they love you. They're romantic, creative, easy on the eyes, and honest. Best way to attract a Virgo is honesty, quickest way to lose one is to CLING. Taurus are great friends but too controlling for independent Virgo women. Scorpios fun to be around but LOVE women and will not be faithful. Libras are romantic and enjoy the chase but feelings too easily hurt and cannot make up their minds once they catch you. Leos are good but Virgos are the best! There is absolutely nothing wrong with us, we just happen to be particular about who we spend our precious time with.
    Comment #81 by linda on June 04, 2009
    hello.i am a virgo and i was married for twenty years to an aquarius and it did not work but God sent to me another virgo and it looks good.He does not have all the good looks but as T D Jakes wouuld say look under the hood.
    Linda
    Comment #82 by Raynona on June 03, 2009
    I am a virgo been married to an Aries for 31 years minus a 1 year we were divorced have no idea why I married him again other than it was familiar. Just not sure how to really end it and try to find a true connection.
    Comment #83 by Georgia on May 30, 2009
    I like comment #10 by Felicia. I totally agree. I don't understand what it is about us that intimidates men. Everything you said is true. Signed: Chicken
    Comment #84 by RAYMOND on May 29, 2009
    I AM ALSO A VIRGO, WAS MARRIED TO A TAURUS,43YRS, JAN PASSED AWAY FROM AN ACCIDENT,. LIFE WAS GREAT, NOW,?? JUST PASSING THE TIME AWAY, GOOD LUCK TO ALL YOU VIRGO LADIES..
    Comment #85 by Susan on May 27, 2009
    Comment #86 by Sharnette on May 22, 2009
    I am a Virgo, Aug. 29th, we fell hard for each other very quickly.....never been treated like this or felt this way....when we started dating he was already dating someone else....he thinks it is wrong to leave one woman for another....eventhough he says that he loves me....i do believe him....i am crushed! Never felt a love like this one. Treats me like a Queen.
    Comment #87 by Christine M. Wolf on May 22, 2009
    I'm a virgo married to a pisces for eleven years minus 6mos.of seperation got back together doesn't feel like it's working hard to find strenghth to finally end it What's with that?
    Comment #88 by Becky on May 22, 2009
    I am a virgo that was married to a gemini, that lied, cheated and was off on his own, while I sat at home with my 3 kids. He left me for a young one 20 yrs younger. I have dated pisces, aries, and now am enjoying my freedom and independence. I truly believe that we will all find our soulmates when the time is right, and God does have a plan for all of us. We go thru trials in life to find our true soulmate. Hang in there everyone, and god bless!!!
    Comment #89 by cynthia on May 16, 2009
    Female virgo,married 3 times Libra, love of my life did not work. Gemini next never grew up and always lying about everything. Then came Aquarius needy,insecure,jealous all the things that drive me away. I truly love him but the sad thing is I'm the one ALWAYS giving and having to be understanding. I pray that he changes. Never dated a VIRGO is that truly our soulmate?
    Comment #90 by melanie on May 01, 2009
    im in love with a leo. but as of today and not to mention the restof my love life before now.... i usually end up getting lied to. decieved and left to later listen to some crap story...Love is the worst thing i've ever felt...sincerly a virgo
    Comment #91 by Ashlee on May 01, 2009
    In life you have many opportunties to engage in different types of relationships. Each relationship brings certain hardships, tasks and adventures into your life. Knowing what sign someone falls under does not mean that person will follow all the traits of their sign. Be patient with the relationships that you engage in. All relationships take time, dedication, and understanding. Enjoy your journey.....
    Comment #92 by ron on April 30, 2009
    WHAT'S UP MY VIRGO'S. WELL,this is the first time I have ever been on this sight and I want all of you to know you make it what you want. I was born 09-02-61. I found out I'm a perfectionest and get-er-done type of person. Us virgo have more commonsence than all the stars put together. Some times we tend to go from subject to another and people get confused. Is what I'm saying is we will be talking and already be thinking about something else so we as virgo's will start thinking out loud. Hey god bless every one and keep your head up high. ron
    Comment #93 by felicia on April 29, 2009
    Hey I'm a Virgo lady! & I'm a magnet for Aries, Scorpios, Libras, Sags, and leo. I never been attracted to another Virgo yet, not that I know of. But Aries are bullshitters, they say one thing and do another. They tend to get held up by their own diarehha mouth or they made a stop somewhere. When I say I'm on my way that's what I mean. I tend to be late all the time, but it's different when your waiting on a MAN. Scorpios are straight liars, cheat on you, and have you as the third girl and you don't even know. Libras they are very jealous people,always in competition, and never can give you a straight fucking answer, they never know how to make up their damn mind. Sags were liars, fun, but they come fast in the bedroom and I don't like flagging someone on for a second round. I just try to avoid dudes at all, but I really want to talk to them to see what they are about. I dont know whats wrong with me I need help.... Are US VIRGOS THAY FUCKED UP THAT WE DONT STAND AS PART OF LIFE?????? I READ THE HOROSCOPES AND VIRGOS ARE THE WOSRT SELECTION OF PEOPLE ROAMING THE EARTH. WE'RE SO CRITICAL, SIMPLE, NARROW MINDED, NAIVE. THIS IS THE TRUTH AND IT MAKES ME WONDER LISTENERS ARE WE REALLY THAT WONDERFUL TO BE BLESSED TO HAVE A SOULMATE? IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE WE WERE MEANT TO BE ALONE!!! I'M SO WILLING TO THROW IN THE TOWEL.... WHAT IS IT ABOUT VIRGOS??
    Comment #94 by clara on April 27, 2009
    I'm a virgo and had been in a relationship with a capricornian but somebody stoles his heart. I am too broken hearted because I love this man very much. I thought he is my all, my life and everything but he's gone. Been terribly hurt of what has happened to us.
    Comment #95 by clara on April 27, 2009
    I'm a virgo and had been in a relationship with a capricornian but somebody stoles his heart. I am too broken hearted because I love this man very much. I thought he is my all, my life and everything but he's gone. Been terribly hurt of what has happened to us.
    Comment #96 by Constance on April 23, 2009
    Tammy, I love your comment! My nick name is Diamond....hahahaha, and yes I am also a Virgo. We Virgo's ground relationships, but also need to embrace the differences in others. I have read some of these comments, and know that when you are in an abusive relationship, that is really the time to LEAVE and I pray to the Great Spirit Master to give you the strength to leave when that happens. I also have a hard time finding a mate, companion, love, because I have to beleave that the time is not right and we are being protected from a higher power. Keep the faith, there is someone out there for all of us even me! Love and Peace, Diamond
    Comment #97 by Deanna on April 23, 2009
    I am a virgo and was married to a taurus was that a mistake then met a capricorn. Was that even worse very demanding, met a pisces and we got along wonderful but had to move apart due to jobs. Met a Capricorn again fell in love and we were together for 6yrs until he passed away. Now I have met a Gemini and think this may work. We have our own lives but still we are together....
    Comment #98 by Andrea on April 22, 2009
    Sharon don't give up. I have another Scorpio persuing me and I am runing away from that one. I hope one day I will find my soulmate but for now I do not trust Scorpio's. They are too secretive for my taste and I have found them to be dishonest, just stay away from them. I have had 4 in my life and they keep on coming. I'm a Scorpio magnet.
    Comment #99 by sharon on April 21, 2009
    I am a Virgo also and I was really heartbroken by a Scorpio. My life was great then I met him. He was the love of my life and I thought I wasnt worth nothin when we parted. I m not sure if I can ever find true love like I had with him. I hope one day i'll find the one man that I can spend the rest of my life with.
    Comment #100 by Tammy on April 21, 2009
    Never take
    someone for granted
    Hold every person close to your heart
    Because
    you might wake up one day
    And realize that you've lost a
    diamond
    While you were too busy collecting
    stones
    Comment #101 by Tammy on April 21, 2009
    Don't no one give up. God works in mysterious ways, you will find the love of your life when your not looking....I am Aries and my soulmate is Virgo, together 6 years, married for 2. We both are very happy!!!!!!!!!
    Comment #102 by Alana on April 20, 2009
    Im a virgo and still hoping to connect with my soulmate.... Although I just got disappointed by a leo. Think I'll put relationships on a hold for now!
    Comment #103 by Andrea on April 17, 2009
    I know what you mean James. I feel like giving up too. It shouldn't have to be this hard. Maybe it's a Virgo thing.
    Comment #104 by JAMES on April 17, 2009
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    Comment #105 by JAMES on April 17, 2009
    Im a Male Virgo, Im still looking for my mate. Its really hard thing to find. I've about give up. James M
    Comment #106 by Andrea on April 16, 2009
    I'm a Virgo women and seem to only attract Scorpio men and the last one broke my heart. I was married to a Gemini and that was a crazy relationship and I have no one now but I would love to know what my true match is. I am starting to think all I will ever get is Scorpio men, oh god help me!!! I do have a Scorpio rising sign, gee what a surprise that I only attract Scorpio men. :(
    Comment #107 by Jaynie on April 11, 2009
    Pat, Got the pisces and yep Same exact senario!!!
    Comment #108 by Jaynie on April 11, 2009
    I am a virgo. I have been with a Libra, capricorn, and pisces
    All of whom I seemed to bring out the worst. the Libra was scary and possessive, the Capricorn was just plain crazy and the pisces is nerotic, selfish and gutless. Can't seem to find my solemate guess cause I am a true nitpicky virgo. :(
    Comment #109 by Lyndi on April 10, 2009
    I am a Virgo, Virgo rising, so a true Virgo. I am married to a Gemini. We are true soul mates and each except the other for who and what they are. It is okay with me if he has faults since I tend to have a few myself. I adore my Gemini Man and wouldn't want to be with anyone else. We met late in life having already learned just how much work it is to be in a marriage. Happiness is not free no matter who you are married to.
    Comment #110 by India on April 09, 2009
    Hi I'm a virgo and have been married to a scorpio fo 17 yrs. My life has been hell, out of those 17yrs he's held a job for about three of them. He's very controlling and very abusive. I pray everyday that God gives me the strength and the courage to leave him. I fear him and he knows it. I've befriended this wonderful man at work who happens to be a leo and he's so warm and gentle. Just maybe God has answered my prayers. To all you other virgo's I'll keep you in my prayers.
    Comment #111 by crystabel on April 09, 2009
    oh...i loved Whitneys comment, very true and I totally agree!! we VIRGOS can basicAlly make any relationship work, but sometimes its just not meant to be...its a learning experience...Im 27 Virgo...I have had Virgo, Pieces and Libra MEN in my life. Virgo knew me the best, until today we are good friends!! Pieces was loving and fun and libra was fancy and loved me until the end...pieces and libra both sadly passed away and I had a baby girl from each...kelly (5) and kate (1) my name is Crystal
    Comment #112 by Ramachandran on April 08, 2009
    I am a virgo(9/16/36) and my wife is also a virgo(8/26/46)- a love marriage.
    Occasionally she picks on me for silly reasons but we get back quickly. When she makes a mistake, it is very hard for her to admit and navigates away from the issue. We both love and respect each other and feel responsible both fnancially and morally.
    RSP
    Comment #113 by Kerry on April 04, 2009
    any virgo women that have been with an aquarius male? i am in and on again off again relationship with him (his chosing). i've never been so hurt and confused in my 52 yrs. just wondering if it's because he's aquarius or just not the right mate for me. kerry
    Comment #114 by Jenny on April 03, 2009
    I am a Virgo and was married to a Virgo until sadly he died at the age of 48. He was the best thing that ever happened to me,and he was my soulmate.I just hope that one day I will be able to find another Virgo man to love again.
    Comment #115 by theresa foster on March 28, 2009
    im a virgo and im living with a sagittarius, hes 10 years younger than me we both seem to be a unit of one. our likes and dislikes are on the same page we even think alike some time we blurt out whats on our minds at the same time and we are thinking the same thing. we have alot of fun together, we both like to be silly at times act goofy at times so id say we are each others soulmate he keeps me alive and i feel young im almost in my fifty,s and life is now better than ever! both love and finacially. theresa.
    Comment #116 by Judy on March 26, 2009
    Judy- I am also a Virgo,had a good 10 yrs with a capricorn, but the jelousy got the best of me, then i met a gemini, married for 20 yrs, He brought out the best in me. loved him dearly. cancer took him away. 5 yrs later met another Wirgo, thsi is not so hopeful. he is very depressed ,very deeply in debt and drinks. not abusive to me but won't or can't stay in a job. we get along great, think alot alike, says I'm the best thing that ever happened to him. But i keep getting this feeling I should let him go and go on with my life. But if did that , he has nowhere to go and he will commit suicide some place. His family life was very tuff. His father died at 45 yrs old in a motocylce accident, his mother had to raise the 5 kids herself. had a very abusive , alcoholic uncle that made his life a living hell. he died young too. i guess i've said enough. thanks for listening.
    Comment #117 by anna on March 26, 2009
    hey im a virgo aug 29 and for some reason every guy no matter what sign thinks im his soulmate ,now im having relationship with cancer .and he also think im his soul mate he is black im white day and night ,older then me 14 years but happy in love
    Comment #118 by mary on March 26, 2009
    i wish i could be with my husband that is over sea so bad . he is pakistaney i am usa we love each other i am asking are we going to be together soon we been apart two year 6 mth an still waiting . i wish it would happen soon it is keeping me sick an unhappy being apart . Mary
    Comment #119 by pat on March 26, 2009
    Any Virgo females out there involved with a pisces? They seem to love deeply but catogorize the people in their lives. Seems everyone else comes first. This is his second relationship, divorced from first. She is still in picture and always comes before me. He makes excuses as to why he is still around her, doesn't mind hurting me and continuing this behavior Selfish or just another pisces? Its very disrespectful.
    Comment #120 by karen on March 26, 2009
    I am a virgo who was married to a Leo for 7 years. Disasterous. He was abusive. I've been married to a Sagittarius for 20 years who, as a teen spent time in prison, is probably a sociopath and has never grown up. What a roller coaster ride LOL! In many ways we are best friends and can co-habitate without probs. Sometimes I feel trapped though and wonder if I would be happier with someone else.
    Comment #121 by patricia on March 26, 2009
    Whitney, thank you I agree with your # 3 comment we are here to learn and teach each other... Its an ongoing thing and yes are time spent with one another is destined time...so it is to be cherished and nurtured each and every relationship we experience in life the good bad and the indifferent...luv Patricia
    Comment #122 by patricia on March 26, 2009
    I'm Patricia, I'm a virgo just got my heart broke by a capricorn...boy love hurts... I'm 50 years old and wondering also will I ever find my soul mate or just a good mate for the remainder of my life here on earth. I wish all u other virgos the best with your love and life... Patricia
    Comment #123 by Monika on March 26, 2009
    I have not found my true Love I'm a Virgo I would like to find some one to start my Life with will I ever find him I'm romantic love Rose and all kninds of Flowers my Name is Monika .
    Comment #124 by WHITNEY on March 26, 2009
    Because we Virgos are adaptable to any given situation, if we put our heart and minds to it we can make any relationship work. It is not always what sign we are compatible with, but who we are as individuals and what we bring to the relationship. We are nurturers and givers. Since we are like this, some folks tend to see us as too weak or too strong. I was raised to not need a man to provide anything for me. My father taught me this. An Aries is only good for friendship. Geminis are wishy-washy. If a Libra's life is unbalanced, your relationship will not work. You come in contact with other signs either because at the time you are to learn a lesson or you are to teach one. The duration of time you are with that person is the length is is destined to be for whichever role you are to play.
    Comment #125 by WHITNEY on March 26, 2009
    For Comment #5: Girl, I truly feel for you. My daughter's father is a Leo and believed that when God said "Go forth and multiply", he meant hime personally. I have a sister who is one also. They have anger management issues. They never understand cause and effect. If the marriage is that unbearable, then maybe you should get out while you can. I have found Leos to be 2-faced. As long as they are in a good mood, they are great folks to be around. As soon as things get out of whack within their world, they turn on you and they have no understanding of why you react the way you do towards them when they cease to be even tempered. I will be praying for you.
    Comment #126 by WHITNEY on March 26, 2009
    For Comment 36: If you had him before he went to prison, it's all good. If you met him after he went to prison, please beware of what you are getting into. I am a Virgo who has been married to a Sagittarian and a Libran. I have known the Sag since I was in high school. Drugs and Anger Management issues are things that hurt the ones you are supposed to LOVE. So, unless his changes can be verified, it is all a game they play. I know too many who have been incarcerated for stupid things. They make promises that they won't keep. If he isn't getting any love anywhere else, he will be the most devoted individual he can be. We all do stupid things. Think carefully. Please make sure he has outgrown the cause of his imprisonment before you take it to the next level. Yes, be his friend. Maybe he really is sincere. Realize that we Virgos are human too. We forget things. Wait until he gets out and see what happens before you make the move to meet him at the gate on the day of his release.
    Comment #127 by Cindy on March 25, 2009
    THERE IS NO LOVE IN THIS WORLD LIKE VIRGO LOVE MY SOULMATE PASSED AWAY ALONG TIME AGO-I AM A VIRGO- HE WAS A VIRGO< I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW LOVE LIKE THAT < AGAIN! I WAS VERY BLESSED TO HAVE EXPERIENCED REAL LOVE ONCE IN LIFE, I WONDER IF THE GOOD LORD WOULD BLESS ME WITH ANOTHER VIRGO MAN? March 25, 2009
    Comment #128 by shantae on March 20, 2009
    I am also a lady Virgo, my husband is also a Virgo we've been together 10yrs total 7 married nothing like a male Virgo! They know us all too well Ladies.
    Comment #129 by Karen on March 20, 2009
    doesn't matter what the sign....some people are rotten
    Comment #130 by Tonya on March 19, 2009
    well to any other real VIRGO women out there, i have been married to a leo for 18 years..we have 4 children and a lifetime of bullshit. if we listen to our hearts we keep on going.. if we listen to our libido we stop and stay the course excusing the behavior of men we want to love and want to love us...GREAT SEX does not make-up for LOVE. PRAY FOR ME FELLOW VIRGOS....I AM IN THE MIDST OF A CRAZY SEPARATION
    Comment #131 by bernice on March 18, 2009
    well im a virgo woman and i seems to fall for scorpios rather or not im looking for love they seems to swarm me like moths to a flame lol. im single now but scorpios are ok to a point. my last broke my heart so im looking to broden my taste lol. im mean i've been in love with this leo for year and havent told him and i feel like he's my perfect match just hope one day he'll realize that as well. lol
    Comment #132 by Marjorie on March 18, 2009
    Hey, Maria (8 March). You and I have a lot in common. Your story about being married to a lazy, immature, cheating Libra man rings a church full of bells. You're better off now, believe me. And Douglas, maybe you really should try another Virgo. I've always said that 2 Virgos - man/man, woman/woman, man/woman, adult/child - ALWAYS always do well together. I've proven it!
    Comment #133 by Tina on March 18, 2009
    Virgos and Aries do not mix...and I being a virgo lady attract aries men. Aries are Drama ....
    Comment #134 by Charles on March 14, 2009
    I am a virgo male and married a taurus female and it was wonderful we where together for 28 years before the lord took her home
    Comment #135 by claudia on March 12, 2009
    Hey. I was also. Married. To. A leo. It worked out. Fine. But. I. Always. Had. That. Feeling. To. Then. He. Cheated. And. I could not forgive. Him
    Comment #136 by douglas on March 08, 2009
    i wouldn't mind finding a virgo lady that i could talk to and get to know. i haven't been with a virgo since high school, she left me for a older guy..broke my heart. virgo and virgo..hmmm ..can it work?
    Comment #137 by Maria on March 08, 2009
    Sure would like to meet another Virgo. Have been barking down the wrong tree(s) for many years after my divorce from my Libra Husband,which I initiated. He was very immature and drank a lot both of which I could not take. Now he has finally matured and I am the one who is alone. Am I being paid back for leaving him high & dry???
    Comment #138 by douglas on March 06, 2009
    hey Patricia, maybe we should try other Virgo's?
    Comment #139 by patricia on March 06, 2009
    I have been married twice and they were both scorpio. I divorced one and I an now separated from the other. I now know that scorpios are not my soulmate. I am 52 years old and lonely and not sure if I will ever find my soulmate.
    Comment #140 by douglas on March 06, 2009
    i've been married for 20 years to a Leo, there are days that i feel that she's not my soul mate.
    i'm a Virgo.do other Virgo's think this way?
    Comment #141 by james on March 05, 2009
    Hi Robin,
    This is jim I'm 58 years old. And I do not give hope for me or you. So keep the faith. As my grandma (White Cloud)would say put your mind to it and your heart behind it and keep your faith in GOD and it will work out.
    Comment #142 by ROBIN on March 05, 2009
    I am a Virgo and was married to a Saggitarius for almost 20 years till I got tired of the cheating!!! I am looking for the prospect of finding my soulmate but being 50 now I just hope he doesnt wait to long!!!! Tired of being alone.
    Comment #143 by SHELIA on March 05, 2009
    I have my another special love since my husband passed away 7 years ago, I didn't think I would ever fall in love again. He is also a Virgo and we fit like a hand in a glove. He knows what i'm thinking and I know what he's thinking, we are almost like twins. Gotta Love It.
    Comment #144 by james on March 04, 2009
    I have had alot of bad relationship most of my life. Maybe because of Viet Nam and that goes with being in life after I come home and tring to be good native holy man. And tring to find my true spirit mate. I to am a virgo. Jim
    Comment #145 by Colleen on February 27, 2009
    I think that since my divorce this virgo has dated every sign...I am starting to think that there just are those beautiful unlucky souls that are doomed to find the jerks in every sign!!!! LMAO!!!!
    Comment #146 by Yolanda on February 27, 2009
    To comment #6 I am a Capricorn and I am dating a VIrgo, everything is great so far so good!
    Comment #147 by Stacy on February 18, 2009
    I read how I blend with all signs minus one Aries,
    So how do I attract...gees & rice ..14 years single.? Explain that.?
    Comment #148 by Joann on February 16, 2009
    Love to find a souldmate virgo.
    Comment #149 by Joann on February 16, 2009
    comment#14 by Joann on February 16,2009
    I am a virgo love to find a souldmate.
    Comment #150 by Kristin on February 16, 2009
    I meant the last comment for Lynda
    Comment #151 by Kristin on February 16, 2009
    This is for comment #3. I have found Leo's to be self centered and unless the world is revolving around them they cannot function. Life should be shared and love is a two way street. The day you let go is the day you start living again. It does not mean anything is wrong with you it means he didn't know his own self and he is going to try and find something or someone to make him happy, its all about him yuk! I am a Virgo and I have been with my husband (a Libra) for 25 years and we are still completely in love. You deserve that and its not with that guy find someone as beautifully simple and nurturing as you are
    Comment #152 by Heather on February 15, 2009
    as a virgo i always find myself most compatabile with capricorns and other virgo's but im with a taurus and what is said above decribes us to a T
    Comment #153 by trudy on February 14, 2009
    maybe one day god might send me my soulmate after 22 years of a gemeni and I am a virgo
    Comment #154 by Lynda on February 13, 2009
    I was with what i thought was my soul mate for 19 years. when he ended the relationship i was and still am devastated. I'm a "true" virgo; his birthday is aug. 19 - and he has traits of virgo and leo. i keep asking my self what i did wrong. he has completely cut me and all our friends out of his life and has practically done the same with his family, and our daughter. i cannot get him out of my mind and sometimes i feel as if he is in there himself - we used to know what the other was thinking and say it before the other one did. he was and still is the love of my life and even after the way he has treated me and even said you don't have what i want and we will never be together again, ever... i would take him back in a heartbeat. i feel only 1/2 complete. somebody out there tell me what to do. i've tried everything; moved 300 miles away; sold almost everything we owned together; i'm floundering and sinking deeper and deeper into a bottomless pit and everything is suffering. there has to be something wrong with me.. has to be. (i was also married to 2 diff taurus men; they didn't last - this one, i thought would go the distance - there is a significant age difference which he always said didn't matter.. men are pigs!!)....
    Comment #155 by Dianne on February 13, 2009
    I am a virgo and married another virgo 39 yrs ago, 4 children 12 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren later we are still so very much in love and truly devoted to eachother and our family. Ours is his 1st marriage and my second, 3 of our children are a product of my first marriage, but he is Dad to them and they are his babys. Life is good.
    We have been truly Blessed.
    Comment #156 by GEORGIA on February 12, 2009
    I am a virgo and I married a leo. We have been married for 22 years. There have been some MAJOR bumps in the road, however, all in all, I would do it again! The good times and tender moments over shadow the bad.
    Comment #157 by John on February 12, 2009
    I hate the animal but love this sign which definitely suits me to a T.
    Comment #158 by Barbara on February 11, 2009
    Commenting on #4...
    Sorry to hear your relationship has extra stress placed on it because of the separation via prison . Good Luck to you both!
    Comment #159 by Barbara on February 11, 2009
    For Comment #2...I believe a Capricorn is the best partner for a Virgo. This combination cares about the other so much they are usually best friends. How can you go wrong in a love relationship with someone who knows your faults and loves you anyway and shows you love in countless ways...
    Comment #160 by Rosa Lilia on February 11, 2009
    I am a Virgo and I was married to a Leo He was the best, This combination can work well as a team if each does what they do best – Leo, from a creative point of view, and you, from an analytical and practical one. A protective and nurturing bond can exist between these two.

    GO FOR A leo
    Comment #161 by Vicki on February 11, 2009
    who is the most compatable for a virgo,I have no one, but it would be nice to know.
    Comment #162 by mary on February 11, 2009
    I have found my true love he is a virgo we fit. The only short fall he is in Prison. But I will be here for him. We believe in each other and would give our life for each other. We will be togeather in four years.


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